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The Feedback Fiasco: Learning Effective Feedback Communication

Writer's picture: George BegemannGeorge Begemann

Learning to Listen and Respond


In our previous edition, we saw how Mr. Rush encouraged innovation in his company. Now, let's see how he deals with the challenges of open communication and feedback.


Mr. Rush stood in front of the large board in his office, frowning at the colourful array of sticky notes plastered across it. Each note contained anonymous feedback from his employees, part of his latest effort to improve communication within A Busy Company Inc.


Inspired by his reading of "Crucial Conversations" by Patterson, Grenny, McMillan, and Switzler, Mr. Rush had decided to create an open feedback culture. "The ability to have important conversations is key to success in business and personal life," he'd announced at the company meeting, proudly unveiling the anonymous feedback box.



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At first, the initiative seemed promising. The box filled up quickly, and Mr. Rush was excited to read all the insights he was sure awaited him. However, as he began to read through the notes, his excitement faded.


Some feedback was helpful and thoughtful, but a significant portion seemed to be an outlet for small complaints. "The coffee machine on the third floor makes weird noises," read one. "Can we ban fish in the microwave?" demanded another. And then there was the ongoing story of Bob from Accounting's constant humming, which had apparently driven half the finance department to the edge of frustration.


Mr. Rush sighed, realising that creating a culture of open communication was more challenging than he had anticipated. Determined to make the situation better, he decided to hold a company-wide meeting to address the feedback.


The meeting took an unexpected turn when Sarah from Marketing stood up. "Mr. Rush," she said, her voice shaking slightly, "I appreciate the attempt at openness, but I don't feel comfortable sharing my real concerns in front of everyone like this."


A murmur of agreement swept through the room. Mr. Rush realised he'd made a crucial mistake -- in his enthusiasm for transparency, he'd overlooked the importance of people feeling safe when giving and receiving feedback.


Over the next few weeks, Mr. Rush worked on improving the feedback system. He introduced one-on-one "feedback sessions" where employees could share concerns privately, a structured feedback form that encouraged specific, actionable comments, and training sessions on how to give and receive constructive feedback.



one on one meeting man in white with glasses and man in blue seen on from behind sitting at a desk


The changes didn't yield immediate results. Some employees remained skeptical, while others struggled to adapt to the new, more direct communication style. Mr. Rush himself found it challenging to receive criticism without becoming defensive.


But gradually, things began to improve. The quality of feedback became more constructive, and people started to feel more comfortable expressing their thoughts. Mr. Rush noticed that meetings became more productive as people felt empowered to share their ideas and concerns openly.


The true test came during a high-stakes project review. In the past, such meetings had been tense affairs, with people reluctant to point out potential issues. This time, however, team members openly discussed challenges and collaboratively worked on solutions.


As the meeting concluded successfully, Mr. Rush felt a sense of pride. By fostering a culture of clear, respectful communication, he had helped his team become more effective and united.


Have you ever tried to implement an open feedback system in your workplace? What challenges did you face, and how did you overcome them? Share your experiences in the comments below, or reach out for a personalised discussion on building a culture of constructive feedback in your organisation.


As Mr. Rush celebrated the success of his new feedback system, he couldn't help but notice the toll that years of stress had taken on his work-life balance. The efficient use of time and improved communication were significant steps, but he realised there was still more to address. Could Mr. Rush find a way to balance his professional responsibilities with his personal life? Join us next week as we delve into "The Work-Life Wobble" and witness Mr. Rush's struggles with "The Work-Life Wobble" as he strives to find balance in his busy life..


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Explore the full Mr. Rush Leadership Journey series:


1. The Wake-Up Call: When Success Comes at a Cost


2. The Vacation Epiphany: A Work-Life Balance Discovery


3. The Return and Resolve: Implementing Change


4. The Mindfulness Mishap: When Good Intentions Go Wrong


5. The Temporal Tango: Mastering Time Management


6. The Productivity Paradox


7. The Empathy Experiment

https://georgebegemann.com/blog/ empathetic-leadership-skills 


8. The Wellness Warrior: Promoting Health in the Workplace


9. The Innovation Incubator: Fostering Creativity in the Workplace


10. The Feedback Fiasco: Learning to Listen and Respond

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